If you’re like me, it doesn’t matter if I am hosting a small intimate group, my large family, or inviting 30 of my neighbors over to a cookie exchange, hosting can be stressful. Will everyone have fun? Is my house clean? Do I have enough food? Is the décor perfect? The list goes on and on.  All too often, the worrying steals the joy we should feel when we are surrounded by our friends and family.

So, just how do you find calm in all of this chaos? Keep it simple. Focus on 3 main things – a theme, your food and drinks, and décor. Yes, these 3 things can take the most planning, but once you have them in place, the other details will be easy.

1.       Picking your theme - this could be a color, food, or even that holiday sweater you have in the back of your closet-you know the one!  The theme should be something you are comfortable with and easy to build on.  If it is something you love, it will show in all the other aspects of your party and be something you will enjoy as well.

2.        Next let’s plan food and drinks. I love to pick a signature drink and appetizer. Don’t over think this.  Choose something easy to make ahead of time that can be kept out while your guests are there. Think about your famous crock pot meatballs, or a charcuterie board paired with a fun sangria or favorite wine spritzer.  Once you have your staple items, it’s easy to add extra sides. Add some veggies, chips and dip, and always have a non-alcoholic beverage option. Also, never underestimate the stress relieving power of asking your guests to bring their favorite side dish, dessert, or drink to share with everyone.

3.       Now, comes the fun part – decor. One of my favorite ways to bring peace and calm to my space is by using nature. Not only is this a creative way to add fun details to your party, but it is also cost effective!  Pinecones, sticks, leaves and pine branches can make any table come to life!  If you have an area that you plan to have your drinks and snacks, don’t forget to add a few details there are well.  If you are not setting a table for your party, you can use that space as a place for guests to gather and come together.  Keep in mind, when adding décor to your space for a party, less is more. You want guests to feel free to move around and enjoy your home, not feel overwhelmed with a crowded space.

 Remember, holiday parties should focus on bringing people together. If the host isn’t enjoying the party because they are running around, stressed about details others won’t even notice, the guests will feel that. It will be hard for anyone to relax and enjoy spending time together. Plus, if you can’t enjoy the party too, was it worth it?

Yes, holiday hustle and bustle can sometimes get the best of us, but having a plan and keeping things simple, can bring calm to the chaos of holiday party planning. Help You Dwell would love to help you prepare your home for your next event. We can help organize a space, decorate, and assist you in creating a wonderful holiday atmosphere in your home.