Lori Moore

Managing Your Haven for Learning

Learning at home, whether it is in a homeschool setting or just practicing skills and studying for tests, can often be a struggle for families. Children are busy with sports, friends, lessons, and more. They don’t always want to give you 100% when it comes to their studies. Often siblings, televisions, and neighbors ringing the doorbell can be a distraction. In our last blog we discussed some basics for creating a good learning environment. And in this blog, we’ve consulted the experts and loved the advice they gave, especially regarding homeschooling.

When setting up a learning/study space, it’s important to remember that it needs to be organized and easy for kids to navigate on their own. If a space is chaotic, it creates stress and frustration, and those are the last things any parent needs when trying to help their child learn and practice new skills. We’ve asked some friends who are homeschooling now, or have in the past, what tips they have for best managing a learning space. Here are some helpful tips and pictures they shared with us!


Rachel: Their family was a homeschool family in 2020 and then participated in a homeschool/co-op after that. Rachel was a teacher before working for Help You Dwell, so she already had a good understanding of how to teach concepts and lesson planning/pacing.

Tip: Switch it up. While they had a designated homeschool area in the dining room, they often went to other tables or areas in the house, and they got OUTSIDE as much as possible. They even sat on the roof a couple times! Rachel also mentioned the importance of taking field trips to help with learning and visiting the local library for reading time and to check out books. Learning doesn’t have to always take place at a desk. Younger kids do well with movement and change every 20-30 minutes.

Tip: Keep it simple. Too much visual noise on the walls and on desks/tables is overstimulating and too busy/distracting for little ones. It’s also easier to change things up as the year goes on as you are learning about various places and concepts.

Tip: Work for incentives! Kids are motivated by having goals and something to work toward. Make sure that you do things to keep them motivated and moving forward each day.


Heather: She has been homeschooling for 15 years. She has held homeschool in a dedicated room, but she’s also had to teach from the kitchen table when their family was between homes in an apartment. She doesn’t stick to a set schedule each day but does follow the same rhythms with her kids each day. Sometimes school is in the morning and sometimes it is at night. Heather also says she loves to travel and take trips with her kids to help with learning. She’s taken them to 48 states and says sometimes it’s those moments when you end up chasing a rabbit trail that the kids remember the most. If they are curious about something, Heather believes that you should let kids explore and go deeper. She feels there is immense value in going on field trips and getting out and learning from the real world.

Tip: Storage is important. When she had a dedicated room to teach in, she built in desks and used custom made cabinets for storage. She currently teaches in her home’s library and uses a bookshelf for storage. Each of her kids had a dedicated shelf for their workbooks and supplies, She also utilizes rolling carts for her teacher manuals and books she may be reading with her kids. She has a turn in basket on the wall where the kids know to place their work and she can easily grab it to grade. Heather loves magnetic whiteboards on her walls in their homeschool room AND in their kitchen. She says often they end up in the kitchen eating or snacking and it is nice to have a board in that room so that notes can be made, or concepts can be explained while everyone is sitting around the table.

Tip: Connect with others! The homeschooling network is HUGE. Heather emphasized the importance of connecting with other families during your homeschool journey. She said if you are a person who doesn’t love science experiments, reach out to others-there’s always someone in your network who would love to fill in the gaps where you might not feel confident. You can do the same in return!

Tip: Set expectations early. Heather likes to ease into learning at the start of the year. She staggers subjects and lets the kids get used to being back in “school mode” before diving in and trying to teach all subjects. But once they are in the groove she lays out their lessons and writes the to-do list for the day in the kids’ notebooks each morning. She has the semester planned on a calendar for reference so that she can pace herself in regards to teaching all standards.


Amber: Her family has been homeschooling for 8 years. She has 4 kids and has a dedicated room to teach in. Her kids participate in a co-op, so they are at school for 3 days and home for two. Amber loves the flexibility homeschooling gives her family. They don’t have a set start time each day but do follow the same routine on days when they are home. She loves that there is such a big homeschool community in our area and has a group chat with other homeschool families. She loves seeking guidance and help from others and says having that sense of community and knowing others are out there to help when you need it is a huge blessing.

Tip: Set a routine early. At the beginning of the week, she prints lesson plans and her kids put them in their binders. They also pull all the worksheets they will need for the week and are responsible for keeping their binders in order. They know how to use the printer and have a list of their passwords posted on the boards by their desks so that they can be more independent. The kids know that when their learning time is over, everything must be put back in its place and cleaned up.

Tip: Use the wall space. She has handwriting posters, maps, and magnetic whiteboards on the walls above the girls’ desks. She houses materials for teaching and learning in a set of bookshelves with supplies (dictionaries, flashcards, math manipulatives, art supplies, etc.) that are easily accessible. She also has shelving along the sides of the walls by the desks for extra storage for books, journals and work they need to complete. Amber uses bigger desks against the wall for her two older children and a smaller desk in the middle of the room for her younger. It is important to have appropriate seating for younger students who are still learning basic fine motor skills.

Tip: Keep a calm environment. Amber’s room has a large window with natural light that streams in the room all day. She diffuses oils and plays music at times to help with concentration and maintaining a calming environment for learning. Her kids often use noise cancelling headphones or ear buds when they are learning. This also helps minimize distractions.


All three of these lovely ladies mentioned the same thing when we were wrapping up our interviews: GIVE YOURSELF SOME GRACE. They all said that at first it seems difficult, and you want to try to do it all, but really, if you are instilling a love for learning then you are doing “school” the correct way. There are also several great resources in Knoxville that could supplement what you are doing at home. Knox Forest School, Corelli Art and Forest School, and The Muse are a few of the places that have weekly programs for kids of various ages. Remember, you can’t do it all, and it’s ok to have others supplement when possible. Homeschooling isn’t easy, but it is flexible and can be an incredible experience for your whole family.

A Haven for Learning

Back to school ads have started to run and stores are stocking their shelves with shiny folders and brand-new backpacks. Pencil boxes and packages of perfect, unbroken crayons are being snatched up as school supply lists get posted on schools’ websites. Kids and teachers are beginning to anticipate the start of school within the next few weeks, and the dog days of summer are in full swing. But for some, back to school doesn’t mean what it used to.

There’s no denying that education has changed over the past few years. During 2020, millions of students learned from home via computers and virtual classrooms. Learning looked quite different. Many even discovered the joy of learning from home and realized the flexibility it allowed. Serval other reasons parents have chosen homeschooling are because they want to provide a safe learning environment, they are frustrated with the current academic system and expectations, and often, religion also plays a part in the decision to homeschool. Whatever the reasons, we have seen a dramatic increase in the number of students who are homeschooled. According to the Census Bureau data, nearly 4.4 million school-age children in the US receive an education at home today.

Homeschooling looks quite different than it did years ago. There are co-ops, more opportunities for students to take classes for college credit, large networks for support, and more social interaction for students thanks to online clubs, classes, and even local field trips. If homeschool is something you are considering for your family or even something you’re already involved in but are overwhelmed by, we want to help! Even if you aren’t a part of a homeschool group and your child is in a traditional school setting, we have some great ideas to help every learner thrive at home.

  1. Be Thoughtful About the Space: Setting up a space for learning can be done in a variety of ways. You don’t have to have a dedicated room-be flexible! You could use the corner of a room or even the dining room table if that is what works best for your family. It’s also important to know your child’s learning style. This will help in how you set up your learning space and plan your day. You learner will need a table or desk to do work, If your student is younger, you are also going to want to make sure they have appropriate seating options as that is crucial for proper posture for good handwriting and learning fine motor skills. Try to make sure there is some good natural light and access to wi-fi. If the space is near a busy part of your home, noise cancelling headphones may be good for students who are easily distracted.

  2. Add Items to Serve Needs: It’s great if you have an entire room dedicated to homework or at home learning, but most people do not. If your child’s study space is also a space that is used by the rest of the family, you need to make sure you have a place for all their school “stuff.” Think outside the box. Maybe you have an empty drawer in your china hutch-use that for storing school supplies. Go to garage sales or thrift stores and look for furniture like old armoires you could repurpose. Clean out the hall closet and let that be where you store school items in storage bins. Being able to put items away and out of sight when you’re done with learning time is key. You want to make sure you have a dedicated drawer, bin, crate, etc. for each individual child’s workbooks/textbooks. Some homeschool mamas I’ve talked to even suggested assigning each child their own color to cut down on confusion.

  3. Create a Command Center: Use some wall space or the inside of a cabinet door that can be opened to post a schedule and calendar with due dates and upcoming events. As a former teacher of 20 years, I always found it beneficial for students to know what the week was going to look like, and for older kids, seeing an outline of the month can be helpful. Make sure there is a clock in the room, and younger students will need some type of dry-erase board or even a chalkboard painted onto the wall for teaching/practicing certain skills. You’ll need a place for students to turn in completed work (if it isn’t digital) as well as a place for supplies. Students need to have things like markers, crayons, pencils, pens, paper, etc. all readily available and in clearly labeled spots with easy access. This could even be a cart! Make sure you have some dedicated space in that command center for electronics storage and charging as well.

  4. Stay Organized: Establish routines and daily clean-up habits from the start. Yes, if you are homeschooling your schedule doesn’t have to be as rigid as a typical school, but your student needs a set routine so they know what to anticipate each day. You will also want to make sure your student knows where things go and how to clean up well at the end of their learning time. Practice this with them each day until it becomes a habit!

  5. Get Creative: School and studying doesn’t always have to be at a desk. Take class outside on days that it is nice, bring bean bags or comfy chairs into the space to create a cozy corner for reading, or have history class at a museum! School should be FUN.

When working through the homeschooling journey it is important to be flexible. If this is new for your family, you will need to really pay attention to your family’s natural rhythms to see how you might need to adjust your schedule and routines. There’s no right or wrong way to do it; you certainly need to find what works best for your family. All children can thrive and succeed!

Meet Margaret

Margaret Page is one of the nicest people you’ll ever meet. She’s a Knoxville native, wife, and mother of two who found her way back home after many years away. If you were to ask what she does, I’d quickly answer and say that she’s one of the best listeners I’ve ever met. Recently we met over coffee and doughnuts so she could tell me more about what she’s been up to since being back in Knoxville. I knew immediately that I had to write about her, as her mission of helping others feel whole and satisfied in their lives goes hand in hand with what we hope for all our clients at Help You Dwell.

Margaret has made a living doing grief work and creative arts therapy. She’s a certified grief educator with a background in expressive therapy and mental health counseling. She is also a lecturer in the expressive therapies field and has been a state-certified therapist in New York and Pennsylvania since 2005. Over the past twenty years, she’s done group, family, and individual counseling in the areas of creative arts therapy, dance, and verbal therapy.

Margaret’s personal statement about therapy is as follows;

My work is grounded in the belief that loss, difficult life transitions and unexpected change can lead us towards transformation.  If we find space to honor what’s been lost, we can move through life’s disappointments, find acceptance, and move into a chapter of life that feels deeply satisfying.  My work often focuses on the perspective of someone in the middle of life.  From parenting children to parenting aging parents, the middle of life often asks us to accept the half of life that is in the past, have faith in the half of life that is in the future, and find ways to be present in the now.  

I believe in meeting each of my clients where they are on their personal and spiritual journey.  My training and experience allow me to find the best way to work with individual clients–whether that’s talking, moving or making art.  For me, helping clients is not about any particular diagnosis but about seeing the best in people and reflecting it back to them.  

My personal experience caring for a mother with Alzheimer’s disease has taught me about the ambiguous nature of grief and how powerful it can be to consider what it means to be human.  I have had to learn how to come to terms with loss as well as how to find connection in a world without words.  

I believe that healing comes in relationships.  When we prioritize relationships above work, titles and ego, we allow ourselves to be seen and mirrored in a way that only happens through sharing ourselves with others.   

I also believe in the healing power of nature.  I encourage my clients to explore healing and growth through outdoor experiences.  I find walking, hiking, plunging and biking to be personally beneficial to me, and encourage clients to explore these or other outdoor activities.  

Margaret’s practice focuses on helping clients navigate various life experiences and transitions by considering overall mental well-being. She wants her clients to know that she’s there, walking along beside them on their journey.

Helping others find peace after loss, a move, or during different phases in life is something we love doing here at Help You Dwell, and forming good relationships and bonds with clients is critical. Many of our clients are not only struggling with clutter in their homes, but with clutter in their lives as well. While Help You Dwell can help organize and guide you through a move or transition, Margaret can help if you are struggling with loss, grief, or finding your way through a difficult time.

If you think you or someone you love would benefit from a listening ear with years of experience, she’d love for you to reach out. You can call her (347) 834-7351, or head to her website: margaretpagema.com to schedule a session with her.

Sweet Summertime and These 5 Things

Summertime is near and we are so excited about the change of pace that comes with it. There is so much to see and do in and around Knoxville and we wanted to share these 5 things with you!

Photo Credit: Paris Woodull

  1. Paris Woodhull: Even if you don’t know her name, you have probably seen her art around town. Paris Woodhull has made a career out of creating illustrations that celebrate Knoxville, mental health, and all things colorful. She has a brick-and-mortar shop in Market Square and does custom artwork as well. Learn more about her art and products here!

  2. Riverview Family Farm: This farm (and fellow Scout Guide member) has been a working farm since 1801. The 7th generation of the family now runs the farm and solely produces Black Angus beef. Their market also sells locally made honey, cheeses, and more! They have a 6,000 sq. ft barn you can rent for weddings and events. In the summer they also have delicious ice cream at the market to enjoy. If you've never been to an event or sale there, go visit and enjoy the beauty and peace farm life can bring.

  3. Rhinestone Fest: Dolly Parton is an icon. Knoxville will celebrate her June 2-4 during this festival in the Old City. This celebration (formerly known as Dolly Fest) is a family-friendly event that will celebrate all things Dolly, and it’s FREE to attend. Put on those cowboy boots and dress up in your Dolly-best for a weekend of art, music, history, food and fun celebrating Dolly!

  4. Dixie Lee Fireworks: Light up the sky this summer with fireworks from this family-owned fireworks stand. This year they celebrate 75 YEARS of business when they open NEXT WEEK, which makes them pretty legendary, too.

  5. Take a Selfie! Did you know Knoxville has over 40 murals? Take a walking tour downtown and see some of the amazing creations done by local artists. The Top 5 are listed here and they are a good place to start. Don’t forget to tag #knoxrocks if you post them on Instagram!

Celebrate Mom

There’s a song by the Band Perry called, “If the World Had a Mother Like Mine,” and every single time I hear it, I find myself in a puddle of tears. My mother is simply the most amazing person I’ve ever known. I could list accolades for pages and pages. Anytime I had to write about who my hero was during my years in school, it was always my mother. I truly believe that the world can learn so much from them.

I recently read a book called The Eternal Mark of a Mom (by Linda Weber) and it really resonated with me. As mothers, the work we do is impactful and important, and that work will leave a mark on the next generation forever. Being a mother is also a very tough job. It seems with every passing year, there is some new phase to navigate with our children, and there’s no rule book for us to follow. And if we’re being honest, we are all just doing the very best we can in hopes that we get it right most of the time. If we lived in a perfect world, we could protect our kids from being hurt and disappointed, we’d always know the right thing to say when they are fearful or nervous, and we’d never fight.

Mother’s Day is a day set aside for us to celebrate mom, or any other woman who has been a mother figure in our lives. When we sit down and think about those women, there are probably countless lessons they’ve taught us and many things we probably catch ourselves doing or saying that we learned from these amazing women. I am grateful for the lessons and advice my mother shared with me, and I’m blessed that she’s still here with me, giving advice or a listening ear when I need it.

As Mother’s Day approaches, I hope you will reflect and share with the women who helped shape you just how grateful you are. I also love the idea of giving clutter-free gifts that would allow those special women to have some pampering or an experience you can share with them. Here are some great ideas for that special lady in your life:

If you’re lucky enough to still have your mom, we hope you celebrate Mother’s Day with her in a big way this year.

Estate Transitions

THERE OFTEN COMES A TIME IN ALL OUR LIVES OR OUR LOVED ONE'S LIVES WHEN WE HAVE TO SAY GOODBYE TO THE PLACE WE'VE CALLED HOME.

Estate Transitions are not easy. The loss of a loved one or helping aging parents move to a new living situation can be overwhelming. Often, you are facing decades worth of memories and items that have accumulated, and the thought of downsizing and packing everything up becomes a monumental task with many hurdles. A parent's home filled with memories, trinkets, collections, photographs, furniture (both valuable and not), and years’ worth of things that are so overwhelming to go through.

Those of us at Help You Dwell understand that estate transitions are no small task. Our team is not only equipped with knowledge and experience, but with kindness and consideration. Every transition is personal, and we love getting to know our clients and their specific needs so we can serve them in the best way possible.

If you hire us to help with an estate transition, here are some things it will include:

  • inventory of belongings/packing and labeling of items

  • assisting with the decision-making process of which items would be most conducive to a new space

  • recommendation of service providers (moving company, real estate agent, handyman, etc.)

  • estate sale planning

  • consultation with family regarding disbursement of excess items to other family members, donation centers, or others in need

When we come in to help, we go through every cabinet, dresser drawer, bookshelf, box, closet, trunk, and room to categorize, label, box up, and create order so that when the time comes, you can easily decide what to keep, what to sell, and what to donate.  HYD feels honored to be trusted with such an important job which is why we take such care with each object we touch, paper we read, photo we categorize, and memory we help to preserve. It all stays confidential, and our clients can feel safe knowing that we will find the right home(s) for any items they choose not to hold on to.

If you have any questions or interest in learning how we might help you or a loved one with transitioning into a new home, please don't ever hesitate to call or email us at 865.245.9080 or info@helpyoudwell.com.

We've also updated our website in a few places to describe in more detail how and what HYD can assist with, especially related to estate transitions and organized moving and unpacking.

We would love to get to know you and your specific needs so we can serve you in the best way possible.

Move Managment

Spring is here and at Help You Dwell we say that it is also the beginning of moving season! There’s no question that moving can be one of the most stressful things in our lives because moving usually means change is happening in other areas of life, too. Change is hard, but change can be good.

Maybe you just got a new job or are moving in with your new spouse. Perhaps you are moving to accommodate a new little one or you are beginning a remodel so that your current house better suits your needs. Whatever the situation, even if it’s for exciting new adventures, moving can be very stressful. While we can’t promise a completely stress-free move, we can recommend ways to keep the stress from becoming overwhelming.

One service we offer at Help You Dwell is Move Management. We can help you through the process in a variety of ways. We offer several services that are helpful when you find yourself planning for a move. We offer pre-move services like decluttering and packing. We think it is best to declutter and purge before moving. There is no reason to move junk you haven’t used in years, or worse, things you still haven’t unboxed from your last move. We can come in and help you declutter and purge so that none of those things move with you. We can even take your donations and see that the appropriate organization gets them!

Once your home is decluttered and is ready to be put on the market, we can help with staging to sell. We can come in and help you use the decor items you already have to create an inviting space that is free of clutter and ready to show. We have interior designers on staff who are experts in this area!

Help You Dwell does packing, too. We can bring boxes, tape, bubble wrap, and paper to your home. Our team can pack boxes so you are free to do other things that keep you busy when moving. We have a Move Management Coordinator who is an expert in all things moving related.

We also offer moving-day coordination. We can be present to help coordinate service providers and serve as a point person during the day of your move. Moving day is usually the most stressful day of the move, so why not allow us to help ease that stress?

One of our most popular services is post-move unpacking and organizing. Once you’ve moved into your new home, you are left with rooms full of boxes and new spaces you’ve never lived in before. Let us come in, unpack, and organize so that your new home serves you well.

Here are a few more tips that will make your move easier:

  • Create To-Do Lists: Make a list of everyone you need to contact and places you will need to notify about your change of address (utilities, schools, banks, driver’s license, USPS, etc.) so that you will not be caught off guard or fall behind with bills.

  • Make Space for You: Designate one spot for trash and boxes that are broken down after you’ve moved so that every room doesn’t feel chaotic.

  • Schedule Childcare: Make sure if you have little ones, they have a place to go on moving day. Finding a friend or grandparent who can help watch them will free you up to focus on the move.

If you are preparing for a move or even a new phase of life, we would love to help! Reach out for a move management consultation today.

Organizing with HYD

Help You Dwell was established nine years ago because we love helping others. Every week our team members have the pleasure of meeting new faces and hearing new stories, which brings us lots of joy.  But often, when we walk into a new client's home, the first thing we hear is "sorry."  We want you to know that you never need to apologize for your home!  Your home is part of your story, and we all have a story, too. We never judge you and want you to know that we are always compassionate, professional, and respectful

So, what does an organizing session with us look like? Well, it begins with understanding that together, we are a team. As we walk through our plans to help you find order and peace in your home, we want to hear the story that brought you to where you are.  Our organizing sessions are really a four-part process: listen, plan, declutter, and organize.

At Help You Dwell we begin every organizing session by listening to your needs. After we have learned more about you and your home, we will begin walking through a plan for your space. There is no “one size fits all” approach for us. Our company understands that being organized means different things to different people, and we hope you never feel pressured by trends on social media and television, friends, or family to become a version of "organized" that doesn’t work for you.

When we are ready to spring into action, the first thing we do is help you declutter. You must declutter before you can organize. Decluttering means sorting and purging items. If we don’t declutter first, we are simply moving items around and spinning our wheels. When we declutter, we make space. When we make space, we can easily organize.

So how do we declutter? We like to put items into 4 categories: keep, donate, trash, and relocate. Remember, we are a team! We are there to help you make tough decisions about things you may be holding onto for varied reasons. Often when you have a teammate beside you, decisions are easier to make, and you feel “lighter” when you can be free from some of the clutter in your life. There are several organizations here in town that we love to send donations to. We can also take your donations if you don’t have time, or the task seems overwhelming.

Once we have decluttered, we can begin organizing! We will create systems that keep you organized, as well as discuss routines that work for you specifically. Doing this will free you up to spend more time being with the people you love doing the things you love.

We want you to be yourself, just with less stuff and more you.  You are worth the effort. 

Meet Our Team!

The Help You Dwell story began in 2014. Since then, our team has grown from two into a team of twenty-four. With our unique backgrounds, we realize that our experiences nurture in each of us a capacity to empathize with all kinds of people in all kinds of situations. We are committed to listening well and working together to create a space you will enjoy. Our intention is to help free you up to do more of the things you love. We are at your service to create beautiful, organized, and livable spaces where you can reclaim your home and use it the way you’ve always dreamed of.

These incredible women are some of the newest faces behind the hard work and unique presence of our services here at HYD. What a gift to bring to you the diversity of style, backgrounds and personal touches that each woman offers.

We proudly introduce you to…

Lori

Lori is a Knoxville native who shares her home with her husband and teen daughter. She was an educator for 20 years and loves that her work with Help You Dwell still allows her to help others. She has always been a minimalist and loves structure and organization in her home and in life. She thrives when she can make a to-do list or spreadsheet and then accomplish those tasks. She loves helping people find peace and joy in their homes. In her opinion, less is more! She hopes that when she’s in a clien’’s home, they feel accepted and free to share their story. She loves that Help You Dwell doesn’t have a “one size fits all” approach and truly creates plans and systems that are unique to each individual. In her free time, she loves to read, write, and travel.

Renee’

Renee is originally from Kansas City but has lived in the Southeast for 24 years.  She’s been married to her best friend and father to their seven children (and one “rat” dog) for 35 years! Her children range in age from 30-16, and she also has two beautiful granddaughters. Before working with Help You Dwell she was a HS Youth Director and then a full-time mamma for many years. Next to being a mom, she is most passionate about the work that she does with Haiti Child Sponsorship. She helps provide education and nutrition to children in Pele, Haiti. She loves that working for HYD still allows her time to work for the children of Haiti. Her favorite part of working with HYD is the PEOPLE!  She loves meeting and getting to know clients, and she loves working with the other HYD staff members. She loves to see the relief and joy that order brings to people’s lives. When she’s not working, she loves to be outdoors in the sunshine, mountains or beach (or anything in between)! She loves spending time with family, playing games, cooking, or watching movies!

Brittany

Brittany is originally from Kingston, TN. She is a wife and a proud momma of a beautiful daughter who is 11 years old. She also has a fur baby, Beau Chesney, who completely runs her household. Before starting HYD she worked as a front desk receptionist and front desk supervisor at Children’s Faith Pediatrics for almost 10 years. She says the best part of working with HYD is helping our sweet clients. She loves to see them smile, be happy and refreshed! When she’s not working, she enjoys working out, being on their family’s boat, golfing and being her daughter’s biggest fan as she is a competitive cheerleader! Brittany is also a HUGE TN VOLS FAN and loves watching football in the fall, too.

Andrea

Andrea has moved around a lot, but loves calling Knoxville home. She loves the energy and location that our great city has. She shares her home with her husband and two daughters. She found Help You Dwell through a friend on social media. She’s extremely organized and spent most of her career as a teacher. She confesses that she’s always wanted to be a professional organizer! HYD is her dream job. She loves being a part of a team of people who are always eager to help others and work efficiently and joyfully together. When she’s not working, she loves exploring small towns and hiking or having a picnic with her husband. Game nights with friends and family are some of her favorite ways to spend free time.

Ally

Ally is originally from Wisconsin and moved to Knoxville with her husband Mike and two kids a few years ago. Her background is in interior design and health coaching, both of which she uses to help clients at Help You Dwell. She understands that everyone has a part of their life that could use refining and change to reduce their chaos and stress. She believes in being very intentional with what she does and thrives when she’s busy. In her free time she loves to explore and do design projects around the house, and her favorite way to spend a weekend is camping and exploring with her family.

Laura

Laura was originally born in England, but claims Knoxville as home now. She has three dogs- Brooklyn, Boss, and Bindu. There are all crazy rescues with wild personalities, which lead to their IG account @brooklynandboss. Boss is a therapy dog that works with HABIT at UTK.  Laura is a full-time school counselor and has also taught yoga and pilates for over 15 years. She loves getting to help people when she is working for Help You Dwell. She says it's so rewarding working with families to make their lives better. She loves helping organize, unpack, and assist families with difficult transitions. Laura has a BIG heart.

Katherine

Katherine is a Knoxville native but has lived all over: from college in VA to Aspen, Colorado, and then grad school in London. She shares her newly renovated home with her cat, named Idgie (as in Idgie Threadgoode from "Fried Green Tomatoes"). Before working for Help You Dwell, she was a 5th grade teacher. She loves working for HYD because she thrives on being able to help people find peace in their homes and freedom from the stress they have because of clutter. In her free time, she enjoys backpacking, traveling, seeing new places, eating new foods, and meeting different people. She is a sunrise enthusiast who craves adventure. 

Rachel

Rachel was born and raised in Kentucky and moved to Knoxville from Birmingham about nine years ago. She shares her home with her two kids, Ramsey and Elliot, husband Alex, and a 60-pound puppy named Ruthie. Before working for Help You Dwell, she taught special education. She says the best part of working for HYD is seeing the smile, relief, and excitement cross people’s faces after making a space more livable, more enjoyable, and more functional. She also loves getting to meet new people and says an unexpected bonus to this job was getting to work with (and for) a strong, unique, amazing group of women, many of whom are now friends. In her free time, she loves to be with her family. They spend a ton of time outside, and every time the sun is shining, you will find her family at the lake! She also loves to cook new recipes, decorate, and of course, organize!

Colleen

Colleen is originally from Baltimore, Maryland, and came to Tennessee to attend UT in 1997. She shares her home with her husband, Danny, and her two boys Talan and Bentley. Before HYD, she stayed at home with her two boys while running her two small businesses, Cakes by Colleen and Spoiled Dog PupCakery. She loves that her work with HYD allows her to run her business as well as spend time with incredible people, clients, and coworkers. One of her favorite quotes is “Do what you love, and you’ll never work a day in your life.” In her spare time, she loves to bake and do anything crafty, as well as work in the yard and exercise. She’s recently started reading more, which she says she never thought she would enjoy! She has found that reading now helps her relax and find peace.

If you are interested in scheduling a session with our amazing team members, please reach out! We look forward to being able to help you dwell.

These 5 Things

It’s hard to believe we are halfway through the first month of 2023. The holidays are over and kids are finally back in school. Take time to rest, enjoy the calm, and consider these 5 things.

  1. Cork and Cover is an amazing bookshop in downtown Clinton. Set a reading goal for yourself and then go visit!

  2. Embrace winter and learn about Hygge.

  3. There are so many benefits to this simple task and here are some great reasons you should consider journaling. This quick video has some great ideas for this creative practice.

  4. Enjoy cup of hot cocoa. with this recipe from Downshiftology.

  5. Start a blessings jar for 2023. Whenever you recognize a “blessing” in your life throughout the year, just write it on a piece of paper, fold it up, and stick it in the jar. On New Year’s Eve, dump out all the blessings from the entire year and read them aloud.

Meet Our Friend Ali + Her Cute Shop

We are excited to introduce you to our friend Ali Daugherty and her cute shop called Reece! Ali is an East Tennessee native and a graduate of the University of Tennessee. She has a background in graphic design and photography, but has always had a love for design. That love for design, which she jokes may have begun with her mother dragging her to countless antique stores as a child, is what fueled her dream of one day having a shop of her own.

Ali + Shop Reece

Ali started Reece, her son Beckham Reece’s namesake, back in 2019 as a pop-up shop right before the pandemic hit. However, the pandemic made it difficult for a pop-up business to thrive, so she pressed pause on her dream. In the fall of 2021 Ali decided to re-launch Reece and has been overjoyed at the shop’s success.

Products

Shop Reece offers thoughtfully sourced textiles and collected vintage pieces such as art, rugs, pillows, accents, and furniture.

Ali’s hope is that her clients walk into their homes and feel a sense of peace and calm. She believes you should be comforted by the objects that surround you and feel joy when you are in your most sacred space-your home. Many of her products are inspired from memories she has from years of traveling the world, and she approaches design through feelings and emotions that are tied to memories.

Ali loves to source products from artisans all over the world, and she feels it is important to have a relationship with each person who makes the products she sells. Her pieces are unique finds she would not be able to offer were it not for each artisan’s creative talents and abilities. Each piece Ali selects for her shop is thoughtfully chosen and reflects her unique style and skilled eye for design.

Services

Ali can source custom vintage and antique products if you are looking for something unique for your space. She also offers stying sessions if an area of your home is in need of a refresh.

We are so glad we were able to share our friend’s wonderful business with our Help You Dwell family. Head over to her website and check out her shop. Keep an eye on her social media for events and new products. We know you will love her as much as we do!

Mention Help You Dwell when you shop to receive 10% off any item (some exclusions apply).

New Year, New Perspective

Happy New Year! Now is the the time for making all those resolutions that are so frustrating and hard to keep. Why do we do this to ourselves year after year? What if we approached this new year with a different mindset? What if we start 2023 by looking at ourselves in the mirror and saying, “Hey, you’re doing just fine.”

Our culture tells us that if we invest in this diet plan, have a perfectly styled home, update our wardrobe, or try this anti-aging serum, that we will be satisfied and fulfilled. Clever marketing and social media have really done a great job convincing us that the next new thing is all we need to make us happy. What if this year we just said no to all that?

This year make a shift in your mindset. Re-evaluate what is important and don’t seek out new things to bring you joy. Are there small revisions you can make in your daily routine? Are there ways you can start making better use of what you have? Take time this year to refine who you are, not reinvent who you are.

When you sit back and reflect on the things that truly bring you joy, what comes to mind? Most often it will be memories of people and places, not things. It may even be the satisfaction you felt when you straightened your pantry or cleaned out your closet! Creating order and peace in our homes is something we all strive for, it reduces stress and makes our home a place of refuge.

As this new year begins make a list the things you love about yourself, your home, and your relationships. Take inventory of what you have. Often our desire for “more” and problems with our self-esteem come when we start comparing ourselves to others. Don’t let comparison be the thief of your joy! Evaluate what you truly desire for your life. It’s probably not new things, but it might be new routines, more calm, and less chaos. Set reasonable expectations for yourself and know there are people around you that can assist you along the way. Our company is called Help You Dwell for a reason. We are here to help you find peace and order with the things you have. We would love to cheer you on, help you with overwhelming tasks, and remind you, “Hey, you’re doing just fine.”

Reach out and let us know how we can help you.

Call 865.245.9080 or email info@helpyoudwell.com

Holiday Gift Guide

We’ve created this Holiday Gift Guide in hopes that it will help with your gift giving this year. Here you will find a carefully curated selection of our favorite places to find gifts that are personal, thoughtful, and Unique.

Experiences:

  • Wake Foot Sanctuary: Give someone the. unique experience of a specially formulated herbal soak and rejuvenating massage that is sure to de-stress and re-energize.

  • Plaid Apron: Gift someone a meal or gift card at this great eatery in our community that prides themselves on bridging the gap between farmer, restaurant, and mouth.

  • Top Golf: Give the sports lover in your life a gift certificate to Knoxville’s newest entertainment venue. The bays are climate controlled all year long and even if you aren’t a golfer, it’s a great way to spend a few hours having fun!

  • Help You Dwell: Give the gift of HYD’s services to a friend, loved one, family member or neighbor. Our services are a wonderful way to show love to a new mama, a transitioning homeowner, or just someone you love. This gift card can be used towards organizing, packing, and/or unpacking services.

Goods:

  • Reece: This is one of our favorite shops for one-of-a-kind pieces! They have thoughtfully sourced home goods from all around the world and offer services to help you style your space and can also source custom or antique pieces that will be unique to your home.

  • Happy Envelope: We love this shop for so many reasons! They offer luxury letterpress wedding invitations, custom stationery, art prints, and gifts that will make your heart smile.

  • Minimal Optimist: This shop is a lifestyle boutique that specializes in sustainable, eco-friendly, and nature-inspired goods and unique gifts. They also have great gifts for your plant-loving friends!

  • Union Avenue Books: Downtown Knoxville's locally-owned independent bookstore with a great selection of the newly published titles. They also host a variety of local, regional and nationally known authors for readings and book signings. We love to support local shops as well as local authors!

Unique Seasonal Items:

  • Bradley’s Gift & Home: In addition to hundreds of handmade sweets, you can find unique home goods and special gifts for any occasion. We love all the different ornaments, candles, and decor they have for sale during the different seasons of the year.

  • Fig & Co.: FIG exists as an avenue to provide unique and one-of-a-kind goods for the home, including accent decor, art, furniture as well as gifts. Their selection of holiday decor and gifts is amazing!

  • Back Porch Mercantile: This shop is a unique space that offers specialty finds for baby, home, gift items and accessories that are inline with a modern farmhouse aesthetic and southern hospitality. Their seasonal merchandise is beautiful and like no other.

  • The Painted Perch & Co: This market has over 30 vendors offering goods such as antiques, painted furniture, Haitian artwork and handmade pieces (all proceeds go back to Haiti), new and repurposed furniture, gourmet food, hand crafted textiles, gourmet pet items, boutique adult and children clothing and jewelry like Myra bags, Fusion paint, reclaimed wood pieces, gift items/baskets and so much more! They have a huge selection of holiday items that would be great for anyone on your Christmas list.

Local Holiday Markets:

  • Stanley’s Greenhouse-Located across the river south of downtown Knoxville, Stanley’s is a locally owned greenhouse and plant farm. Shop with them on Small Business Saturday (November 26), or visit on Sundays in November and December for their Holiday Marketplace for one-stop shopping for gifts and decor.

  • Riverview Family Farm-Located in West Knoxville, Riverview Family Farm is holding their annual Holiday Barn Sale on Friday, December 2 from 10 a.m. to 5 p.m, and Saturday, December 3 from 10 a.m. to 3 p.m. Stop by and see local vendors with a variety of goods.

  • Ijams Holiday Market-Located on Island Home Avenue, go celebrate the holiday season by supporting local artisans and makers at the ninth annual Ijams Holiday Marketplace on not one, but two dates this year: Nov. 27 and Dec. 4 from 10 am-3 pm! You'll find crafty delights, including beautiful jewelry, all-natural body products, glass, pottery, apparel, local food trucks, a beer garden, hot drinks, and so much more!

  • Foothills Holiday Market-Located in the Smithview Pavillion in Maryville, this market is going to be open Saturday, December 3 from 10 a.m. to 4 p.m. There will be a variety of gifts and items from local vendors, as well as food trucks for snacks and lunch.


Happy Shopping Friends!

Thankful Hearts

It is November, and for many of us it’s a time for reflection, being grateful, and thinking about our many blessings. During this season many families will gather around a Thanksgiving table and spend time sharing things that they are thankful for. This is wonderful – focusing on the positives in our lives rather than the negatives is important, and we as humans don’t practice thankfulness enough.

As we approach this season of thankfulness, our team at Help You Dwell wants you to know our hearts are overflowing with gratitude and love for you, our clients and friends. We are overjoyed that so many of you have allowed our team members into your homes during the past year. We have laughed with you, cried with you, celebrated with you, and hopefully served each of you well.

Our Thankful Team

We hope you can set aside some time to pause and reflect on your many blessings during this season of thankfulness. Take time to tell those that you love how much they mean to you. You mean so much to our team and we have truly been blessed by helping you.

There’s no better time than now to get started organizing your home to help create an environment that brings you peace and happiness. Remember, bringing calm and order to your home is a process. We are happy to help you along the way, no matter what challenging situation or complicated transition you may be facing.

CALL US AT 865.245.9080 OR BOOK OUR SERVICES HERE!

Laundry Doesn't Have to be SCARY!

Halloween is coming and many of us have decorated our front porches with skeletons and ghosts. Everything looks spooky and scary outside, while inside our homes we often find ourselves closing the door to the laundry room because it can be a scary place, too! When we take a peek inside most laundry rooms we see baskets of clothes, mis-matched socks, bulky boxes of detergent, and cabinets full of random cleaning supplies. We look at laundry as a never ending chore, and for some, the thought of organizing a laundry room is overwhelming.

Here at Help You Dwell we love organizing laundry rooms. Just because laundry is a chore doesn't mean you can't do It In a beautifully organized space. Big or small, there are things you can do to make your laundry room a functional and organized space that meets your family’s needs.

When organizing your laundry room it's Important to ask yourself a few questions:

  • What are the laundry room necessities that you need in this space?

  • Do you fold laundry and iron as well as wash clothing in here?

  • What items do you need to make the space more organized and functional?

Once you’ve determined how your family uses the laundry room, you can begin organizing with storage solutions such as cabinets, baskets or drawer organizers. Remember, it's not about the perfectly labeled container, but how the product serves your needs. Think in general terms of storage combined with maximizing the space to create a laundry area that works well for you.

Here are some great products we love for laundry rooms:

  • Glass Jars-Great if you have limited storage or no cabinets. These keep your soap, dryer balls, etc. looking neat and are smaller than big, bulky boxes.

  • Lazy Susans-Effectively store cleaning supplies in a way that you can easily see what you have.

  • Baskets and Acrylic Bins-Fantastic for items like dryer sheets, clothespins, rags. sponges, and more!

  • Drawer Organizers-Store items like batteries and small tools that you keep Inside, furniture/flooring repair kits, command strips, and all those other things that might be found In your "junk drawer”. Laundry rooms are a great place for these items, and keeping them here can free up space in other areas of your home like your kitchen.

  • Mop and Broom Mounts-If your laundry room or closet is also where you house your mop and broom, these are a great option to get them off the floor and out of the way.

Here are some links to other great products we love for other areas of your home.

Laundry rooms need to be functional, but they can also be aesthetically pleasing. With a few small changes you can give your laundry room functionality AND style. Consider adding cabinets or shelving. Paint an accent wall or use wallpaper behind your washer or dryer. Shop your own home for decorative items and plants you could bring Into the space to give it warmth. You probably have numerous items you could “re-home” in your laundry room.

There are many ways your can change the look and feel of your laundry room. Implementing an organized system into a small space will make It feel much more functional and well thought out. If you need help In this area of your home, don't be afraid to reach out.. We can help with both the design and organization of your laundry room.

Call 865.245.9080 or Email info@helpyoudwell.com

We can't wait to help you dwell!

Garage Organization

Fall has finally arrived here In East Tennessee and each morning we are greeted with cool, crisp air and falling leaves. Fall’s cooler weather means it is time to tackle some projects that were probably neglected during the hot summer months. One of the most requested services here at Help You Dwell is garage organization.

Garages are unique spaces. Not only are they supposed to house our cars, but they also become the catch all place for other items we have no dedicated space for inside our homes. If your garage is cluttered and disorganized it can be very frustrating, making it difficult to find what you need quickly. If you walk through the garage to get inside your house each day, you know what an eyesore it can be when there’s no order. We love organizing garages and can help you make that space neat and tidy so you can spend more time outside enjoying the wonderful fall weather.

We know that everyone uses their garage for different functions. Uses may include storing equipment for hobbies, sports, luggage, travel gear and seasonal decorations. Some prefer a dedicated space for a home gym and exercise equipment or a drop zone for shoes and bags. We even have clients that use their garage as temporary storage for furniture and home decor items during a renovation or transition.

No matter how you use your garage, when you decide it is time to regain control of the space we recommend a couple of strategies to get your started. The first is the four box method. This method of sorting and organizing will help you purge items you no longer need in your garage, as well as help you determine the use and importance of the Items that you wish to keep.

FOUR BOX METHOD

ZONES

Once you’ve purged and determined the categories of items that need to have a place in your garage, you can sort these into zones, which is our second strategy for helping your organize your space. Keeping like items together makes it easy for you to find what you need. Think about proximity and location for the zones of your garage contents. Items less frequently used may be best stored higher up, while sports equipment or items used more often should be in an area easy to access. There’s no right or wrong place for you to store items, but there are more practical and efficient places if you plan correctly.

It might be helpful to have different zones for members of the family as well. If mom is a master gardener, she definitely needs a zone where she knows her items are kept separate from other outdoor items like bug sprays and lawn care products. And if dad is an amazing woodworker, his tools and items need their own zone so that he doesn’t lose track of where they are. Kids need zones, too! Keep their items like sidewalk chalk, bubbles, balls, and yard toys down low where they are easy to access.

Here are some products we love that can help you with your zones:

After you've organized, you will most likely have Items to get rid of. Consider donating items to an organization like KARM, or you could even have a garage sale. Fall is a great time for garage sales in our region! If you have old paint there are a few guidelines you need to know:

  • Residents may take up to 20 gallons of oil-based paint (20 one gallon cans or 4 five gallon buckets full or partially full) or 100 pounds of HHW to the dump per day.

  • Here’s a quick guide for disposing of latex paint from the City of Knoxville.

Here at Help You Dwell we are at your service to help you organize and maintain beautiful spaces in your home. We can help create a plan, sort through items, and implement new systems for sustaining organization. We love working in all areas of the home, and garages are no exception! If you’d like our help, please call 865.245.9080 or email info@helpyoudwell.com

We can't wait to help you dwell!

From Chaos to Calm

Americans are busy. Being busy seems to be the new normal. I never thought I'd miss the slow days of quarantine when we played cards around the kitchen table and read books together cuddled up on the couch. Somehow though, here we are, back In the daily grind and I am missing the calm that once seemed like a burden and inconvenience. Recently a friend told me to remember that there is no reward for being the most "busy" and it really resonated with me.

I began to really ponder the ways I could help bring more calm to our chaotic lives. I realized there are some simple habits and changes a family can implement into their routine that will make a difference in how your home feels when you are there. I know that when my home feels calm, my stress levels decrease. Who doesn't need less stress in their life? Here are some tips for you to try:

Family Calendar: Having a visual representation with everyone's schedule will help keep your whole family on the same page (literally). It will ensure that your family will keep their commitments and appointments, and it will keep everyone from asking you about appointments and practice schedules because there will be a calendar everyone can see. It might be helpful to designate a different color for each person in the family as well. Having a family calendar can also help you plan ahead and not over commit to doing things you really don't have time for (especially if you are a person who has a hard time saying NO). This calendar can help others realize that different people in the family might need help sharing the "load" from one week to the other, depending on each person's schedule. Make sure you post the calendar In a place where everyone can see it on a daily basis. Click on the picture to download and print a family calendar.

Meal Plan: Once you have your family calendar filled in, you can easily see which nights are going to be free and which nights are going to be busy. Let's face it, most families don't have time for dinner together around the table every single night, but if you can pre-plan your meals and be prepared for the week ahead, you might find yourself a little less stressed when you hear, "What are we having for dinner tonight?" Having a plan will also help you stay on budget and be focused when you grocery shop. It's also a great idea to keep track of your weekly menus in a 3-ringed binder, folder, or even online in a working document that all can access from their phones or computers. Take time once a week to have a planning session with your family if they are willing to help out with this task. Many times picky-eaters will be better eaters if they’re allowed to share some ideas for what is being served. You can re-use menus every few months so that you're not always having to come up with new meal ideas. Keep track of what your family loved with a star or heart somewhere on the meal planner, and cross out something that they didn't enjoy. This will save you all kinds of time in the future! Click the meal plan picture below for a printable template you can use.

Take 5: Now that you have your family calendar set up and all meals are planned, hopefully you are feeling more organized and less stressed. A habit that I learned growing up and still implement today is taking just five minutes before going to bed each night to tidy up around the house. We fold blankets, straighten up pillows on the couch, make sure the dishwasher is loaded, and lay out any important items we might need for the next day (dance bag, soccer cleats, etc). If you do this, each day you will leave your house with it neat and tidy, and mornings will be less chaotic because everyone has prepped for the day the night before.

Make a Project List: When you sit down and think about all the projects there are to do in your house at any given time, you might feel overwhelmed. If you feel like you don’t know where to start and you’ll never make sense of your space, CONGRATULATIONS! You are totally normal. Make a to-do list of the areas in your home that need to be simplified or organized. Look at that list and know that Help You Dwell is here for you.

We are a company that is committed to listening well and working together to create a space you will enjoy. Our intention is to help free you up to do more of the things you love. We are at your service to create beautiful, organized, and livable spaces where you can reclaim your home and use it the way you’ve always dreamed of. If you, a friend, or family member does not LOVE organizing or simply doesn’t have the time to nest well, reach out to us! We can help create a plan, sort through items, and implement new systems for sustaining organization.

We also offer an extended consult service in person or over video chat (if you aren't local). One of our experienced HYD organizers will visit your home, listen to your needs, and create a customized action plan to bring order to your home, your upcoming move, or an estate transition that will allow you peace and order for many years to come. This entire session includes 1.5 hours. Part of that time is spent in your home, and the remaining time is spent developing your action plan. Call 865.245.9080 or Email info@helpyoudwell.com

We can't wait to help you dwell!